One of the most common messages I get from couples is:“Brook… I need help writing my vows!” If you're sitting at your laptop, staring at a blank screen, stressing out over the right words to say in front of your partner and your guests — you’re not alone.

As your celebrant, I’m not just here to say the legal bits (although we’ll definitely get those covered!). I’m here to help you craft a ceremony that’s warm, memorable, and truly personal. So, I’ve rounded up my favourite wedding ceremony tips and secrets to help you bring your dream celebration to life.

If you’ve just tied the knot and are ready to update your surname — or combine names in a way that feels right for you — here’s your step-by-step guide to legally changing your name after marriage in Australia.

One of the most common questions I hear in the lead-up to a wedding is:“How can we include our children in the wedding ceremony?”. As a celebrant working with couples across Greater Sydney, the Illawarra and the Sutherland Shire, I’ve seen just how moving and magical it can be to include children in a wedding ceremony — whether they’re toddlers, teens or your wonderful stepkids.

How you feel on your wedding day matters just as much as how it looks. As a celebrant who’s seen it all (including some minor pre-aisle meltdowns!), here are some practical, intentional and mindful ways to reduce stress on your wedding day so you can actually enjoy every magical moment.

If you’re planning a wedding, one big question usually pops up early:“What is a wedding vow, and how do we write one?”. As your celebrant, I’m here to help break it down — and make the whole process feel a lot less overwhelming (and dare I say, even fun!).