How to Include Children in a Wedding Ceremony: 6 Beautiful Ideas

By Brook Isobel – Marriage Celebrant servicing Sydney, Sutherland Shire & Illawarra

One of the most common questions I hear in the lead-up to a wedding is:“How can we include our children in the wedding ceremony?”. As a celebrant working with couples across Greater Sydney, the Illawarra and the Sutherland Shire, I’ve seen just how moving and magical it can be to include children in a wedding ceremony — whether they’re toddlers, teens or your wonderful stepkids.

Your wedding is a celebration of your relationship and your family. Here are 6 thoughtful ways to make sure your children feel seen, included and part of the love.

💍 1. How to include children in a wedding ceremony with personal moments?

One of the most meaningful ways to include children in a wedding ceremony is by having them walk you down the aisle. You can walk in with them from the start, have them meet you halfway, or even give them their own moment to shine.

💍 2. Let them be ring bearers — or give them one too

Children often take great pride in having a job. You can include them in your ring exchange by having them present the rings — or surprise them with a ring or keepsake of their own during the ceremony. This is especially sweet for blended families.

💍 3. Add a reading or special role just for them

Want to include children in your wedding ceremony in a gentle, low-pressure way? A reading is perfect. I’ve got a collection of kid-friendly, funny or heartwarming readings that suit all ages and personalities. Plus, it makes for beautiful photos!

💍 4. Mention them in your vows

Personal vows are the perfect place to include your children in a wedding ceremony. Even a simple line like “I promise to support and love not only you, but our family” is powerful and moving. It shows your commitment to the life you’re building together.

💍 5. Plan for “Parent Time”

For couples with young kids, here’s a practical tip: assign someone (who’s not a parent or grandparent) to care for your children during the ceremony. This gives you space to be fully present during your vows, rings, and all the big feels — without distraction.

💍 6. Get them involved in your ceremony exit

Confetti cannons, petal tossing, high fives, or even walking out hand in hand — your children can be part of the celebration as you walk back down the aisle. Including them in your exit creates joyful, candid moments to remember forever.

Every family looks different — and that’s what makes your ceremony special.

Whether you want to include your children in a big or subtle way, I can suggest ideas that suit your ceremony vibe. I’ve even got a secret stash of readings and vow prompts just for family-focused weddings!

Let’s create a family-first wedding ceremony in Sydney

I’m Brook Isobel — a modern, relaxed celebrant creating ceremonies that reflect your story. If you’re getting married in Sydney, the Illawarra or Sutherland Shire and want to include your children in a wedding ceremony that’s heartfelt and personal, I’d love to help.

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